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Published Monthly

Vol 44/No 4

Tevet/Shevat 5770

January 2010

 

Editor:  Stan Schaffer

Congregation Beth Hamedresh – Beth Israel

B U L L E T I N

 

January President’s Message

 

Friends,

 

December was an eventful month and there is much to look forward to in January. We had a very busy Chanukah season. Chanukah featured the Bar Mitzvah of Mark Toker on December 12. Mark did a splendid job reading a long maftir portion and an even more splendid haftorah, which he read entirely from the Navi scroll - a parchment scroll containing the books of the minor prophets written like a Torah with no vowels or musical notations. Mazel tov to Mark and his proud family! The bar mitzvah celebration actually started a week earlier when Mark had his first aliyah at a joint service at Beth Am. Rabbi Goldberg officiated at both services.

 

This year our building saw two Chanukah parties. On Sunday the 13th we had a joint party with Temple Beth Am. My special thanks to Steve Teitel, Judith Mercer, my wife Nina, my nieces, and to Ami Schmerl for food preparation and set up. Everyone enjoyed singing Chanukah songs, both traditional ones and some modern ones. After a grueling game of dreidl, Ami yielded his crown as dreidl champ to my daughter Hannah. Next year Hannah must be prepared to defend her crown! On Wednesday the 16th, the Rochester Jewish deaf community also had a party using our building.  The party was organized by my sister Beth and by Diana Pryntz. The candle lighting blessings were done in American Sign Language. Another grueling game of dreidl, this time won by Kyle Brossoit. Beginner’s luck!

 

I would like to welcome a “new” member, Paula Bobb. Paula belonged to BHBI several years ago, and it’s good to have her back with us.  In addition, we recently gained another brand new member, Tamara Strubel.  Let’s welcome them both to BHBI.

 

We started 2009 with a disaster- the flooding of our sanctuary. Repairs were mostly covered by our insurance, but significant additional expenses were incurred doing long overdue major upkeep on the building, so that we are ending 2009 with a deficit, the first one in many years. Sales of cemetery plots, through the hard work of Arthur Mercer, have kept the deficit from being much worse. Additional building work will need to be done in 2010, so that we will likely have a deficit next year as well. A significant item for 2010 will be the installation of the wheelchair lift. That should happen in February. So far we have about $7500 in donations and pledges towards the lift. That leaves $4000 to go. Please help with your generous donation.

 

Finally, on January 29th, Tu B’Shevat, the new year for trees, falls on Shabbat this year. On the evening of January 29th, please join us for a joint dinner and a Tu B’Shevat seder with our friends from Temple Beth Am at BHBI, followed by evening services with Rabbi Goldberg officiating.  See the reservation form on page 6.

 

Have a great 2010! See you in shul.

          

Leon Metlay

 

HAVE YOU MADE YOUR CONTRIBUTION TO THE WHEELCHAIR LIFT FUND YET?  MAKE YOUR PLEDGE BEFORE THE LIFT ARRIVES!

 

SEE THE PLEDGE FORM ON THE BOTTOM OF PAGE 2 OF THIS BULLETIN.


BHBI CALENDAR OF EVENTS – JANUARY 2009

 

Friday

Jan 1

7:00 PM

Shabbat Evening Service at Heather Heights in Pittsford

       Light candles at 4:27 PM

Saturday

Jan 2

10:00 AM

Joint Shabbat Morning Services with Temple Beth Am at Beth Am   

                                                                 Torah: Vayechi                                                                            

Sunday

Jan 3

9:00 AM

Service, Breakfast and Discussion

Friday

Jan 8

8:00 PM

 

Joint Shabbat Evening Service with Temple Beth Am at Beth Am

     Light candles at 4:34 PM

Saturday

Jan 9

9:30 AM

 

Joint Shabbat Morning Service with Temple Beth Am at BHBI

Rabbi Goldberg officiating                     Blessing for the new month.

                                                                Torah: Shemot                                                

Sunday

Jan 10

9:00 AM

Service, Breakfast and Discussion

Monday

Jan 11

7:30 PM

Monthly Meeting of the BHBI Board of Trustees

Wednesday

Jan 13

7:30 PM

Small Shul Collaborative Torah Study Session at BHBI

Friday

Jan 15

8:00 PM

Joint Shabbat Evening Service with Temple Beth Am at BHBI

    Light candles at 4:42 PM

Saturday

Jan 16

9:30 AM

Shabbat Morning Service                       Torah: Vaeirah

 

Sunday

Jan 17

9:00 AM

Service, Breakfast and Discussion

Friday

Jan 22

8:00 PM

Shabbat Evening Service

      Light candles at 4:51 PM

Saturday

Jan 23

9:30 AM

Shabbat Morning Service                       Torah: Bo

Sunday

Jan 24

9:00 AM

Service, Breakfast and Discussion

Friday

Jan 29

6:00 PM

 

8:00 PM

Joint Tu B’Shevat Dinner and Seder with Temple Beth Am at BHBI

 

Shabbat Evening Service with Rabbi Goldberg officiating

      Light candles at 5:00 PM

Saturday

Jan 30

9:30 AM

Shabbat Morning Service                       Torah: Beshalach

Sunday

Jan 31

9:00 AM

Service, Breakfast and Discussion

 

HELP SUPPORT OUR EFFORTS TO IMPROVE ACCESS TO BHBI FOR OUR DISABLED MEMBERS – MAKE A DONATION TODAY TO HELP US BUY A WHEELCHAIR LIFT!

 

Name(s): ______________________________ Donation Amount: $________

 

Send this form to BHBI, 1369 East Ave., Rochester, NY 14610 along with your special donation for the wheelchair lift today!

AppleMark

 

FROM THE RABBI’S DESK

By

RABBI GEOFFREY GOLDBERG

 

January 2010

 

   Anything to relieve the long and cold winters to Rochester is to be welcomed and on the last Shabbat of January we will be blessed indeed. First, this Shabbat is no ordinary Shabbat, but is known as Shabbat Shirah, “the Sabbath of Song,” so named because of the Torah portion’s (Beshalaḥ) inclusion of Shirat Ha-Yam, “the Song of the Sea” (Exodus 15), sung by Moses, Miriam and the Israelites following their miraculous crossing at the Sea of Reeds. Second, this Shabbat coincides this year with the minor festival of Tu B’Shevat. (“Tu” is merely the numerical value of the letters Tet (9) and Vav (6), which together make 15, festival falling on the 15th of the Hebrew month Shevat.). Tu B’Shevat is known as Rosh ha-Shanah la-Iylanot “The New Year of the Trees.” In ancient times the tithing of produce from trees was calculated from this date.

     In Israel today Tu B’Shevat is marked by the planting of trees. Throughout the country thousands of Israelis, especially schoolchildren, participate in the planting of trees. Years before the recent international concern with the environment Israel always understood the importance of reclaiming and preserving the land through afforestation.

    Quite some years ago I lived for six months in Arad in the northern Negev, situated half-way between Beer Sheva and the Dead Sea. At that time it was a new town and had a frontier quality to it. In the winter the winter rains and storms would fill up the near-by wadis and streams that were otherwise dry most of the year. On a chilly, windy and rainy winter’s day we all planted trees. I often wonder if my tree took root. Many years later, I went back to Arad, saw how the town had grown quite considerably, and was pleased to see the verdant vegetation and trees in this modern oasis in the desert.

    Minor as Tu B’Shevat might be, it illustrates in a powerful way that Judaism is not just concerned with matters of prayer and ritual, but is concerned with every aspect of human concern, including the environment, for Judaism teaches that is our obligation to preserve the world that God has given to us.

     After the Exile from Israel, Tu B’Shevat became a day on which to commemorate our connection with Eretz Yisrael, and this was performed by eating eat fruits associated with the Land of Israel. A tradition based on Deuteronomy 8:8 holds that there are five fruits and two grains associated with it, “a land of wheat and barley, of vines, figs and pomegranates, a land of olive trees and honey,” eretz ḥittah u- se’orah, ve-gefen ut’enah ve-rimon, eretz zeyt shemen ve-rimon [Honey is date honey, rather than bee honey]. Almonds are also given prominence. Bokser, carob or St. John’s Bread, was given prominence since it could survive the long journey from Israel to the Jewish communities in Europe, the Middle East and North Africa.

     In the sixteenth century, the Kabbalists, the Jewish mystics, infused new meaning into Tu B’Shevat. For them, trees were symbols of human beings, as it says in Deuteronomy 20:19, “For a human is like a tree of the field,” ki ha-adam etz ha-sadeh. In line with their devotion to tikkun olam, spiritually repairing the world, the Kabbalists regarded eating a variety of fruits on Tu B’Shevat as a way of improving our spiritual selves. More specifically, they believed that eating fruit was a way of expiating the first sin, eating of the fruit of the Tree of Knowledge in the Garden of Eden. Similarly, trees were symbolic of the tree, the Tree of Life, which carries divine goodness and blessing into the World. To encourage this flow and to effect tikkun olam, the Kabbalists of Safed created a Tu B’Shevat seder loosely modeled after the Passover seder. It involved drinking four cups of wine and eating many different fruits while reciting appropriate verses.

    Temple Beth Am and BHBI will be continuing this tradition by observing a Tu B’Shevat dinner and seder on Erev Shabbat, January 29. I know it will be a joyous and meaningful occasion, a perfect way to celebrate Shabbat, the Sabbath of Song and the New Year of the Trees. And of course, a wonderful way of triumphing over the Rochester winter! 

 

Rabbi Geoffrey Goldberg


YAHRZEITS

At the following Shabbat Services, we will read the names of our late loved ones whose Yahrzeits will occur on that Shabbat or during the following week.

January 1-2

Tevet

January 8-9

Tevet

January 22-23

Shevat

January 29-30

Shevat

 

Nathan Garver

Dorothy Lapides

Henry Orbach

Fannie Sablowsky*

Philip Sanzel*

Joseph Schiff*

Hannah Senzel*

Jeannette Fink Snyder

Louis Bernstein*

Carl Kleinstein*

Rose Needler*

Estelle Hirsch*

Shie Schnidman*

Anna Buff*

Benjamin Dvorkin*

 

16

16

16

17

17

17

17

 

17

18

18

18

19

19

21

21

 

Goldie Simon*

Leah Keyfetz*

Joseph Morris*

Esther Sanzel*

Samuel Meilstein*

Ida Boyarsky*

Philip Hershkowitz

Jack Glazer

Joe Lazarus*

 

 

23

24

24

24

26

27

27

28

28

 

Max Springut

Herman Strauss*

Dvora Brodie*

Samuel Goldman*

Daniel Hirsch*

Hyman Aaron Nusbaum*

Miriam Weinberger

Abraham Newell*

Anna Sanow

Rose Salzberg

 

  8

  8

  9

  9

10

 

10

12

13

13

14

 

Gidda Strauss*

Morris Gurian*

Stanley Clark

Samuel Spencer

Gitla Perkal*

Bessie Gold

Benjamin Lapides*

Alexander Phillips

Simon Pogal*

Jacob Rubinstein*

 

 

* Denotes name memorialized on BHBI Memorial Plaque

 

16

17

18

18

18

20

20

21

21

21

January 15-16

Shevat

 

Jean Spencer

Morris Weinstein*

Etta Levinson*

Ida Silver*

Sidney Appelbaum*

Jacob Komenski*

Morris Suskind*

 

  1

  2

  4

  4

 

  6

  6

  7

We pray that our mourners will be comforted among all the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem and that the memory of the deceased continues to be a blessing to all who knew them.

 

 

AMAZON.COM

The next time that you want to buy something from Amazon.com go to the BHBI web page at www.BHBIRochester.org and click on the Amazon.com link.  Each time you make a purchase after linking to Amazon.com from our web page, BHBI gets a percentage of the purchase.  Buy gifts or something for yourself or your family and support BHBI at the same time!!

 

 

So far our TOPS Gift Card fundraiser has been quite successful. 

Remember, TOPS Gift Cards are now available through BHBI in $50 denominations.

 

To purchase TOPS Gift Cards, contact Stan Schaffer

at 473-8072 or by e-mail at stanschaffer@frontiernet.net

 

 

 

TO OUR DONORS -- THANK YOU FOR YOUR GENEROSITY!

 

WHEELCHAIR LIFT FUND

Jill Clark

 

In memory of Herbert R. Hirsch, Daniel Hirsch and Stella Hirsch

Phyllis Hirsch, Susan Hirsch and Debi Boyer

 

GENERAL FUND

Moris and Terri Amon

 

Paula Bobb

 

In memory of Harold Krinsky

Rosemary Hyland and Linda Krinsky

 

In memory of Dianne Hooker

Linda Haynes

Nellya Vishnagorsky

 

 

 

THE RABBI GOLDBERG FUND

We have recently started a Rabbi Goldberg Fund to enable us to engage Rabbi Goldberg to lead additional services at BHBI during the year in addition to the previously scheduled 16 joint services that he will be leading for BHBI and Temple Beth Am.  Whenever the funds in the Rabbi Goldberg Fund reach a predetermined level, we will schedule an additional service with Rabbi Goldberg.  To contribute to the Rabbi Goldberg Fund, please send a check in to BHBI with a notation that the contribution should be used for the Rabbi Goldberg Fund.

 

 

Do You Know Anyone Who is Unaffiliated and Interested in Joining a Congregation?

Let them know about BHBI’s special free 3 month trial membership (available to prospective first-time new members only).  Have them contact BHBI at 244-2060 or BHBI@frontiernet.net and we will be happy to give them information about BHBI and this great offer!!

Volunteers are needed to assist members of the community who want to complete the 2010 survey of the Jewish community but need help with the computer data input. The Federation needs volunteers who are willing to interview survey respondents over the phone and input their responses using a home computer; and volunteers with laptops who are willing to meet with respondents at pre-arranged times and input their responses face to face. If you can volunteer during a 6-8 week period in January – February 2010, please contact Susan Gagnon at the Jewish Community Federation, 461-0490, ext. 242 or sgagnon@jewishrochester.org.


TORAH STUDY

Join congregants from Temple Beth Am, Temple Beth David and BHBI for our monthly Small Conservative Shul Collaborative Torah Study session at BHBI on Wednesday evening, January 13th at 7:30 p.m.  The discussion is always lively and engaging!

 

PLEASE VISIT OR CALL OUR ELDERLY MEMBERS!

Many of our elderly members are no longer able to come to shul and would love to hear from their BHBI friends.  Please call or visit them. 

MEMORIAL PLAQUES

Memorialize a friend or loved one by purchasing a BHBI memorial plaque.  For more information, contact Stan Schaffer at 473-8072 or stanschaffer@frontiernet.net

 

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THANK YOU TO OUR KIDDUSH SPONSORS

FOR THE MONTH OF DECEMBER

December 12

Jeff Nidetz and Leslie Toker in honor of Mark’s bar mitzvah

December 19

The Congregation

December 26

Leon Metlay and Nina Klionsky in honor of Hannah’s 16th birthday

 

 

JOIN US FOR THE JOINT BHBI – BETH AM

TU B’SHEVAT SEDER AT BHBI ON JANUARY 29th

 

The dinner starts at 6 p.m. followed by the seder and service.

 

Cost $10 for adults and children age 13 and over; $6 for kids under 13

Family max = $30

 

Reservations required by Wednesday, January 27th

Make your reservation now!

 

Name(s): ________________________________________

Number Attending: _______ adults; _______ children          Amount enclosed: $________

 

Send your reservation to BHBI, 1369 East Avenue, Rochester, NY  14610


UPCOMING EVENTS AT THE JCC

International Dining
Visit local eateries with an international flair and then critique your experience. Order from the menu or choose from a list of pre-selected dinner options. Spaces are limited at venues. Pre-register at the JCC Main Desk. Each participant covers the cost of their lunch and tip. This event is not kosher.

Saturday, January 23 at 6pm
The King and I
1455 E. Henrietta Road, Rochester NY (585.427.8090)

 

Saturday with the Classics
FREE and open to the public. Registration is required at the JCC Main Desk.

Saturday, January 9 at 7pm
An evening of violin concertos with Julia Siegl, MA, BA, Eastman School of Music. Enjoy the works of Mozart, Haydn, Beethoven, and Brahms.
Saturday, February 20 at 7pm
Enjoy exciting classical guitar sounds in a Spanish Flamenco tradition with duo Mathew Colbert and Ryan Carey.

 

Classical Music Appreciation
Mondays, January 11 - 25: 7pm- 9pm
In this three-part series, you will learn to listen to classical music the way a musician does. Each evening the group will focus on one "great work" and compare it to a modern piece. No musical background is needed.
Instructor, Dave McCarthy holds music degrees from McGill University in Montreal, the Eastman School of Music and Houghton College. He teaches music history at RIT and ear training and theory at Nazareth College.
Register at the JCC Main Desk. JCC Members $30, Non-Members $40.

American Jewish History - The Series
Tuesdays, January 12 - February 9: 7pm- 8:30pm
This class will offer an in depth examination of the American Jewish experience, looking at major themes, events, and personalities. We will look at the contribution of American Jews to all aspects of our society. We will also seek current trends and future challenges likely to confront American Jewry. JCC Members $35, Non Members $40

January 12: Humble Beginnings, Massive Achievements
January 19: Tragedy, Tribulation and Triumph
January 26: American Jewish Religious Movements
February 2: Jews in American Society
February 9: Assimilation: Blessings and Burdens
About the Instructor:

Rabbi Simeon Kolko is a native of Rochester, NY and graduated from Oberlin College graduating with a dual degree designed to prepare students for careers in Jewish Communal Service. He received an MSW from the University of Maryland School of Social Work and a Masters in Jewish Studies from the Baltimore Hebrew University.

 

OTHER EVENTS IN THE JEWISH COMMUNITY

 

An Informal Look at the Q’uran and the Torah

Free and open to the community.

 

Sunday, January 17
Moses
      
Rabbi Matt Field and Dr. Muhammed Shafiq                                      
3:30-4:30 PM
Jewish Community Federation

441 East Avenue


OFFICE:  The synagogue office is checked regularly for mail and messages.  The synagogue phone is 244-2060.  For urgent issues, call Steve Teitel at 473-5741 or Stan Schaffer at 473-8072.  You can also e-mail us at BHBI@frontiernet.net

WANT TO REMEMBER OR HONOR SOMEONE OR A SPECIAL OCCASION? 

Consider sponsoring a kiddush or making a donation to any one of our funds (General Operating, Kiddush, Library, Torah, Rabbi Aaron Solomon Scholarship, Our Youth, Special Events, Rabbi Goldberg Fund or the Sam Malina Memorial Fund).  Please indicate which fund you would like your donation to go to and we will send out an acknowledgement card as you indicate and print an announcement in this bulletin.  A standard sponsored kiddush at BHBI costs just $40 while a larger enhanced kiddush is just $50.

 

BULLETIN CONTENT

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Congregation Beth Hamedresh-Beth Israel

1369 East Avenue

Rochester, NY  14610